Category Archives: Dating


Introducing New Partner Too Fast, Too Soon

Even though a spouse may have contemplated separation for years prior to informing their partner, to the partner, the news comes as a shock, even in view of a tumultuous relationship. For the children, the shock is often even greater.

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Dating After Divorce: Read Between the Lines

Go ahead -admit it. There have been times when you knew someone was attracted to you, but then started second-guessing yourself. You wondered whether or not you were getting the signals straight, and if you should respond with interest. When … Continue reading

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5 Tips You Need To Know Before You Go Back Out There

So you find yourself starting to date again, even if you’ve sworn off the opposite sex one more time. You tell yourself all the “This time…I will [fill in the blanks].” But when loneliness kicks in, combined with the need … Continue reading

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How Do You Know When It’s Too Soon To Move On

People often have strong opinions as to how soon after the end of a marriage or long term relationship a person should date. Some believe six months, some say a year and others say two years. But as a therapist, … Continue reading

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Sexual Problems of Men

The national sex study reported by Dunn et al. (2000) identified some of the most frequent sexual problems creating dissatisfaction in men as erectile problems (48%) and premature ejaculation (43%). Erectile Dysfunction Loss of erection, also referred to as erectile … Continue reading

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Sexual Problems of Women

In this section we discuss the most frequent sexual problems of women. Arousal Problems Also referred to as hypoactive sexual desire, lack of interest in sex is the most frequent sexual problem reported by women in the United States. Colson … Continue reading

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What Men Want Women To Know About Sex

  Men do not always want to be the dominant partner; women should be aggressive. Men want women to enjoy sex totally and not be inhibited. Men enjoy tender and passionate kissing. Men really enjoy fellatio. Women need to know … Continue reading

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Sex and Love

 While this web site is about sexual intimacy and your hosts feel that sexual intimacy is enhanced when the sexual partners are involved in a loving, reciprocal, monogamous relationship, individuals vary with regard to whether an emotional relationship is a necessary … Continue reading

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Characteristics of a Good Sexual Relationship

Partners who have a good sexual relationship tend to have certain characteristics A Good Out-of-Bed Relationship What happens outside the bedroom in day-to-day interaction has a tremendous influence on what happens inside the bedroom. The statement “I can’t fight with … Continue reading

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Sexual Myths

Some common myths about sex… Masturbation is sick. Masturbation will make you go blind/grow hair on your palm. Sex education makes children promiscuous. Sexual behavior usually ends after age 60. People who enjoy pornography end up committing sex crimes. Most … Continue reading

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